11/30 Recap

Oh hell yeah! 11/30. The last day of November. It's beautiful, isn't? Let's get rid of these dark thoughts and move on to sunnier days. It's been a hell of a month, hasn't it? We had to look at the underbelly of things. Of our lives. Our relationships. Who are we? What is love? What the hell are we doing in this place, granted with the sudden, unexpected responsibility of life?

God, I had to face some ghosts. Didn't you? But you know what? At the end of the day, there's always something to live for. Wanting to know the next page of this book.To be surprised by the possibility of love around the corner. Of the good in people. Of a day when you can feel that what you do and who you are really matters in this world. And we all got through it. And that's seriously something awesome.

So I'm sitting here, doing some writing, listening to my Ambulance LTD CD. It's so, so good. It's what Keane is to Brian. Something about it, I just emotionally gravitate towards it. And I was just thinking that...life is good. I love the little roller coasters that life brings. Each month with its flavors, its sweet highs and richer lows.

I've been reading a wide variety of books lately and I love how all these people, these writers , have such different voices. Personalities. You end up trying to imagine what kind of person the writer is. It's kind of why I like blogs. You see the inner workings of so many different types of people. It's a way of psychically traveling, experiencing far away things, mystical things. It's hypnotic, the way looking in a kaleidoscope was mesmerizing for us when we were kids.

I feel terrible about my work situation. Everything in life is just a relationship, you know? All relationships are degreed mirrors of each other. The dynamic between my company and I are like, they want me to care more and invest more of my attention on them, but I just won't. I can't find it in me because I just don't love them and even when I try, my heart is not in it. And so they're offering me gifts to get me to commit to them, but I just can't. And it's not fair to string them along. But I don't know how to say to them that I'm so, so sorry, but I just don't care enough about the company. They're so afraid I'll leave. But I'm just not into it and I think it's dragging them down. Fuckwittage. Like Helen Fielding would say. I feel guilty because I feel like I'm fucking with them, that sensitive bunch. Nice, nice people though.

Ah, I'm going to try harder. Because I want to be fair to them.

Thought of the day:

It's the people who possess the most fear who also possess the most sorcerous and instinctual ability to scare. For me, this was kind of a scary thought to mull over.