One other major thing I discovered last night.

In my guidance area, I had the Lovers card upside down, separated by the 4 of Disks, and then 4 of Wands (Completion) upside down on the other side.

The 4 of Disks shows a perfectly balanced castle from a bird's eye view, surrounded by a moat. Strong, stable and symmetrical. This is the card of Power, though usually associated with earthly power and no more.

What if we all have other halves and somehow, it's in our separation and projected energy in reaching out for each other that we create Power and balance. We make that Power transcendental by the electricity of engaged but separated polarities. Perhaps that's why so many soulmates, when united, find themselves cast into the powerless realm of mortals, yet the power of attraction when the circle has not been completed creates this hot, consuming dynamism that can make people do things that are normally beyond their capability or scope.

Perhaps, if you harness the power generated between polarities, there is an energetic way to actually introduce and build the solid, stable foundation of a new reality in which you and others may live.