i was supposed to fly home to seattle today, but instead, had to change my flight to la. my real estate agent called to tell me that brian had left the place a mess and it would cost $200 to haul everything out. when i moved out, we had thrown out what we could until we filled the dumpster. some of the stuff i left for brian in case he wanted it for his new place, the rest we just couldn't throw out until they emptied the dumpster on wednesdays. i'd emailed brian, who was living there for another two weeks, to tell him that anything he didn't want to just throw out, including some specific objects that i'd tried to but didn't have room in the dumpster for.

he told me no problem, he would do it. my realtor called last week to ask if brian had moved out yet, and i told her he did (that's what he'd told me), and she said the place was a mess with stuff everywhere. i called him and he said he'd left some things that he would pick up on saturday, then called on saturday to tell me the only things he'd left were just some towels etc. i told the agent that the cleaning company could come in, but she called yesterday to say that the house was still full of stuff and it would cost $200 to hire a disposal company because it was too much for the cleaning ladies to take out...it would have to be a separate job.

so i had to change my flight and fly down, and when i got to the place, it was even messier than when i left it. he'd taken all the stuff he did want, and in rooms i'd left empty, he'd left stuff everywhere. he hadn't thrown anything out. and it wasn't just my stuff, it was all of his as well.

i'm so ridiculously pissed. he's just so unreliable. so i've filled up our dumpster again and there's still so much stuff. part of the reason i'd asked him to do it was because after the garbage is collected on wednesdays, the dumpster will be empty. but he hadn't thrown anything out and in fact, left more trash. the place was a total mess. this is so disrespectful. i'm absolutely livid.