talked to a friend last night. her husband is acting like a little boy trying to get what he wants by way of tantrum. it's disappointing.
i told her, it's a male problem, unfortunately. inside every man is a little boy who didn't want to grow up. the good ones just can't justify it to themselves that it's okay to act in a way that disrespects their partner. the good ones, at least you can work with...they'll know at the end of the day, it's in their best interest for both people to work things out and find a happy balance, so they'll work with you. but a little boy behaving badly is hell on a good woman. because she's conscious of exactly what's happening, but knows the only way for it to stop is if the man decides to step up and put a stop to the boy.