when you meet someone who has an uncanny way of getting what they want, the trick is to make them want what you want.

but if you get caught doing this, and your motives can be in any way construed as taking advantage, you'll lose their trust.

so either, you should only want things that are mutually beneficial, or you better be good enough at the mindfuck to not get caught.

but the thing is, if your intentions are selfish or not noble, you always get caught.