i think the problem is, heaven and hell in one drop tastes so good that it becomes a high. something difficult to attain but highly rewarding. the ends of the universe. two polarities occupying the exact same spot.
but if you asked me what is the one dimension of life i would take with me if i was stranded on a deserted island and had to make my days, i would say-- simple, stable and self-contained with infinite room for small pleasures.